There are online sponsors to.
What did you want to know about the meetings? There is no obligation to attend, but if you don't go you miss out on the speakers, frag swaps, and getting to know people face to face.
You can come to a meeting whenever you want they try to move them around to make everybody happy. They have not scheduled a meeting yet when they do they will put a banner on the top of the page with the info.
+1 to what John said
The meetings are on saturdays or sundays.
I suggest letting the Mrs pick out a fish / coral or two. Then she might get interested and want to come to the meetings