Here come the questions..sorry if this is so long.
1) For the stand, If my husband builds one for me, is there anything special I should have him include? I found a stand by BRI Aquatics in the following link:
http://www.briaquaticcabinets.com/html/54__corner_bow_front.html (scroll to the bottom). I understand that this manufacturer is out of business. If anyone knows of any vendors who may have some stands hanging around, please let me know.
2)I plan on a protein skimmer and a wet/dry filter. For the wet/dry filter, the consensus on this website seems to be to take out the bio-balls and use live rock rubble instead. But I am confused..is this where I could also put sand and/or mud like a refugium, or would that be built in a separate unit? Or should I start out with a refugium and skip the wet/dry set up? The 54 gallon corner is pretty tight on space, but I think a refugium would be really cool. Is this too much for a beginner? I guess to answer this question you would need to know what I intend to keep.
For livestock, this is my plan:
Live Rock - 60 lbs or so
Live sand - 2-4 inches
(in order of introduction)
Neon goby
Yellow Assessor
Shrimp goby (small on like the Longray gobies)
Banggai Cardinalfish
Flasher Wrasse
Pair of Clownfish
Bubble tip Anemone
Non-aggressive corals - Waving hand coral and others I have not researched yet.
3) I would really like to have a Mandarin fish some day. The books all say they should only go into an established tank and one with an ample supply of copepods. From my list above, are there any fish who would compete with the Mandarin for food?
Thank you all so much for your help.