Don't be sorry, everyone starts somewhere. In my (also novice) experience, 6 light T5 pendants will give you more flexibility in growing a wider variety of corals as you have in the tank... It also broadens the color spectrum of bulbs you can use as well. Otherwise, there are other options- LED (expensive, but energy saving and they don't heat the tank), Metal Halide (strong, but generally more money to power when compared to T5 or LED, also heats the tank with radiant bulb heat)... I don't know about your setup, but maybe an additional 2 bulb pendant can be fitted above your tank? Otherwise, 6 and even 8 bulb pendants are made for a standard 75g tank. They're not cheap, but they are readily available.
In my experience, the water parameters that you provided look just fine. Lighting and/or feeding would be the first things I'd point to in terms of lack of growth after that...