I don't have any links, but try this explanation:
Head loss is the energy the pump uses just to get water to not flow backwards through the pipe. On your sump return pump, when you turn it off water flows backwards through the plumbing and into the sump. That's because there's a gravitational potential up there. The water 3 feet above, in the display tank, has energy it's waiting to spend on making the trip back down to your sump. If you could vary the power of your pump, then imagine that instead of turning it off completely, you just turned it down a bit. The flow in the tank would decrease. Keep turning it down, and eventually you'll reach a point where the pump is still running, still using energy, and still pushing on the water in the return pipe. But the water won't be going anywhere. It will be suspended in the return plumbing by the small pumping power you're exerting with the turned-down pump. The pump has to do work to counteract the potential energy of the water in the plumbing, and it's tendency to obey gravity. It has to do some work to fight the head pressure of the water above it.
Now on to a closed loop. Let's say your closed loop pump is three floors below you in the basement, with plumbing connecting it to a suction bulkhead and a couple output bulkheads in your display tank on the third floor. What happens when you unplug your closed loop pump. Does water suck backwards into the outputs, rushing down into the basement, through the pump, back up the plumbing and spray back into the tank through the suction bulkhead? No. Of course not. It just stops moving. The water in the pipes just stops moving when the pump turns off. The bulkheads are all connected to the same body of water, so there is no potential energy difference between water at two different points in the closed loop plumbing. You don't need to have your pump running even a little bit to keep the water from flowing backwards. If you used that hypothetical adjustable pump, and turned it on just a tiny bit, water would start moving through the closed loop immediately (albeit very slowly). So 100% of the pumps energy is going into moving water through the closed loop (the only flow losses and pressures are those due to frictional losses related to the size of the plumbing, number of elbows, etc.).
Is that any better?