There is "cooking rock" to give dead organics a chance to basically rot out. This is what you are refering to.
If you're concerned about phophate that is bound to the surface of the rock, you need to dissolve the outer layer of the rock to get rid of the phosphate.
There is no way to do either of the above without killing anything alive in and on the rock.
"Randy" is Randy Holmes-Farley. He is a real chemist, and has written practically every chemistry related article that exists in the hobby literature.