Ive never fed any of my clams and they grow like crazy. I have also heard others say to feed them when they are babies but i dont believe that to be necessary. Adequate light and good water quality and proper calcium levels should be the main concerns. For derasas which do well on the sand bed you need to make sure lighting is up to "par" especially in a deeper tank. As stated above I also have a derasa which i got at about 1 1/2 inch and it is now about 6 and i never target fed.
I think it was Fathoree that reported a study a few years ago showing that most Tridacna clams including maxima, crocea, as well as derasa and many others generate enough enrgy from photosynthesis to sustain their metabolism even when very small. There was also information around bowl feeding (ie putting the clam in a bowl with some food to filter feed but keep the food out of the general aquarium) to possibly be detrimental to the clams as their gills can become clogged.
If you have adequite lighting, from what I have read and my experience with small maximas (1-1.5") and croceas I would just let them be and not add anything else.
Some people dose ammonium nitrate as clam food (in small amount, not for fire work in your tank)
In asian clam farm, they pee in it ...
I know that a scallop is not a clam but I have a Flame Scallop for going on 2 yrs and I've had it from birth
anyway, mollusks are filter feeders and your water coloum can't be that sterile or they won't have anything to eat
IMO don't over skim, no need to feed unless you have a sterile tank