I just barely added my southdown to my system...
Unfortunately there was no other way than to mix the 150 gallons of saltwater, other than in the display itself. I wanted to mix the saltwater first because I didn't know if the salt would leach into the sand and gradually raise my SG. I rinsed my southdown a few times in a bucket before adding it directly to the display. I scooped it in a tupperware container and tried covering it and dumping it lightly on the ground... This effort was futile and I ended up just scooping and carefully placing on the bottom.
I can see about an inch into the tank, but that's about it. I don't have much froth (which I attribute to the rinsing), but there hasn't been much of a difference in clarity from the last few days. I have about 30 lbs of cured base rock in the display to help the bacteria colonization, but it doesn't colonize THAT much in a 120 gal tank with about 30 gallons of sump water.
I'm not running a protein skimmer, nor a mechanical filter either... Both would be helpful, but I don't have access to either since my 55gal reef is still running. I just have to be patient. I have to build a light hood for it anyway. No biggie just yet. Next week if it's still really cloudy, I may be researching alternative methods to try and speed up the process!